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From Pole Dancing Comes Strength

从钢管舞中获得力量

从钢管舞种获得自信心的李诗敏,在大学毕业选择成为钢管舞教师,让更多人在强身健体的同时,能体会到它的美。(受访者提供)

Charmaine Lee Si Min
@yourmainepoles

钢管舞过去常常被贴上“低俗”的标签,但它其实是一种结合力与美的表演艺术和健身项目。李诗敏自五年前开始学钢管舞,虽然曾被长辈和朋友否定,但这从未动摇她的热忱,也希望通过自身的例子,改变他人对钢管舞的误解和偏见。

李诗敏(26岁)对钢管舞一直很好奇,2018年看到朋友在社交媒体贴出学习钢管舞的经历后受到启发,决定报名体验班,踏进钢管舞的世界。

她回想第一次上课时说:“大家都穿着令他们感到最舒适的衣着,专心完成每一个动作,没有人会对你投以任何审判的眼光,让我头一次觉得那么无拘无束。”

李诗敏小学时学过芭蕾舞,原本想在中学时加入舞蹈类的课外活动,却因为有同学嘲笑她体型“肉肉的”,当不了舞者,使她望而却步。

钢管舞便是她克服内心的不自信,给予自己的第二次机会。“以前我很在意别人对我的外貌和穿着的看法,但在这几年学习钢管舞的过程,让我渐渐意识到相貌是次要的,也从中获得力量。”

2019年,她开始将自己的学习成果上传到社交媒体,希望与亲友分享喜悦,同时推广这项表演艺术。不过她发现,不是所有人都能接纳这样的她。

“社会越来越多人正视钢管舞,却仍有人将它与脱衣舞挂钩。一些朋友指出我在网上发布这种视频并不妥当,虽然他们是好意,但我不免感到很失望,因为他们根本没有尝试了解钢管舞。”

令李诗敏欣慰的是,有四五名好友在她的介绍下,报名钢管舞课程。她的母亲之前认为学钢管舞“丢人现眼”,如今已默许她在房间内安装钢管练习,并肯定了钢管舞者所须具备的体能和技巧。

两年前从大学毕业后,李诗敏决定成为一名钢管舞教师,至今教过超过500名学生,年纪最大的有60多岁。

李诗敏说:“我希望更多人能意识到钢管舞是个老少咸宜、有助于强身健体的体能运动和艺术形式。”

Pole dancing is often labeled as "vulgar" in the past, but it is actually a performing art and fitness project that combines strength and beauty. Li Shimin began to learn pole dancing five years ago. Although she was denied by her elders and friends, this has never shaken her enthusiasm for pole dancing. She also hopes to change others' misunderstanding and prejudice against this form of performance through her own example.

Li Shimin (26 years old) has always been curious about pole dancing. In 2018, after seeing a friend posting her experience of learning pole dancing on social media, she was inspired and decided to sign up for an experience class and step into the world of pole dancing.

Recalling the first class, she said: "Everyone wears the clothes that make them feel most comfortable, concentrates on completing every movement, and no one will cast any judgment on you, which makes me feel so free for the first time."

Li Shimin learned ballet in elementary school. She originally wanted to join dance extracurricular activities in middle school, but because some classmates laughed at her for being "fleshy" and couldn't be a dancer, she was discouraged.

Pole dancing is a second chance for her to overcome her inner self-confidence and give herself a second chance. "In the past, I was very concerned about what others thought of my appearance and clothing, but the process of learning pole dancing in the past few years has made me gradually realise that appearance is secondary, and I also gain strength from it."

In 2019, she began to upload her learning results to social media, hoping to share the joy with relatives and friends, and at the same time promote this performing art. But she found that not everyone can accept her like this.

"More and more people in society are taking pole dancing seriously, but some people still associate it with strip dancing. Some friends pointed out that it is inappropriate for me to post this kind of video online. Although they have good intentions, I can't help but feel very disappointed because they don't attempt to understand pole dancing (before commenting)."

To Li Shimin's delight, at the same time, four or five of her friends signed up for pole dancing classes under her introduction. Her mother went from thinking that learning pole dancing was "disgraceful", to acquiescing to her installing a pole in the room for practice, and affirming the physical fitness and skills that pole dancers must possess.

After graduating from university two years ago, Li Shimin decided to become a pole dance teacher. So far, she has taught more than 500 students, the oldest being in her 60s.

Now every time she sees a new student walking into the classroom with chest hunched and unconfident, it reminds her of her original self. "So the first thing I do in class is to make sure the students understand that this is a space without judgment, so that they can feel at ease to be themselves."

Li Shimin said: "I hope more people can realize that pole dancing is a physical exercise and an art form that can be enjoyed by all ages and helps to strengthen the body."

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